问题描述：
The Bad (and the Good) Things About Jealousy
Jealousy is a very common problem in daily life. It’s a kind of“standard trouble”among people everywhere. As soon as there is someone doing better than we are, we get annoyed because we usually want ourselves to be No.1.
We may become jealous of a classmate’s new sneakers or of a best friend’s top marks in an exam, or of the girl in ballet class who is praised by the teacher all the time. We get annoyed because these good things are happening to someone else and not to us.
It’s a bad thing to feel jealousy and envy towards others. We should be satisfied with the things we have, but, somehow, we still wish we had the money of this person and the talent of that person. Instead of sharing their happiness, we just feel jealous and unhappy with ourselves. And, too often, these feelings are expressed by backbiting: saying bad things about the people we envy.
However, envy is also a kind of compliment to others. We see that other people have styles and talents different from our own. By comparing ourselves to others, it can show us what we lack. And we can turn this comparing, this envy of others, into a kind of power.
In a strange way, being a bit jealous of others lets us know what we like and what we want to be like. It can push us to become what we really want to be.
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问题解答：
有关妒忌的不良方面
嫉妒是日常生活中非常普遍的问题。这是一种“麻烦的标准”在人的身上。只要有人做得比我们好，就会使我们生气因为我们经常希望我们自己是第一名的。
我们也许会因为同学的新运动鞋或者好朋友在考试中获得优秀的成绩，又或者在上芭蕾舞蹈课上的女孩常常常常受到老师的表扬而开始嫉妒人家。会使我们生气是因为这些好事情都发生在其他人身上但不发生在我们身上。嫉妒或羡慕别人是一件不好的事情。我们应该对自己拥有的事物感到满意，但是，不知道怎么地，我很仍然希望拥有别人的财富、别人的才能。代替分享他们的幸福，我们感到跟多的是不开心和嫉妒。还有常常，这些感觉会用诽谤的行为来表达：会说有关我们嫉妒的人的一些坏事。
无论如何，羡慕也是有几分恭维别人的。我们看见这些人的风格和才能与我们不同。拿自己和他们比较，这样可以看到我们缺乏了什么。从而我们把这些比较、嫉妒转化成动力。
在这种奇怪的方式，一些对别人的嫉妒会让我们知道什么是自己喜欢的和什么是自己所不喜欢的。这样能把我们推向自己正真所喜欢的样子。
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